My Home that Burnt Down.
This home was built by me through my company Divine Designs, it was just one of many in Vogue magazine. I thought I would share just a glimpse of some of my loss. There had been death threats against me and my children from his disgruntled clients and business partners, mainly because he’d been having affairs with their wives and girlfriends. One of these women was the mother of two children, who, thanks to my ex- was about to lose her own home because he’d stolen her money. That’s the women to whom I signed over one of my properties.
My ex-and I had built a significant and legitimate business empire over our many years of marriage. But he was constantly having expensive and dangerous affairs with women, but when he started to double up his high-maintenance mistresses, he just couldn’t afford his own family. So to pay his way, he defrauded me and my children.
Why the fire? Well, he’d been defrauding one of his clients, and suddenly it all caught up with him. Sadly, we were the aftermath of his mendacity, and my house suddenly and mysteriously burnt to the ground. My four young children and I just managed to escape the inferno, and all we had left in the world were the pyjamas we were standing in. From then on, the five of us lived in a caravan. It’s taken me nearly a decade of hard and dedicated work to get back on my feet.
Why I teach healing, self love, manifesting, spiritual healing and all the things you need to know to survive.
I really have seen the lot, I really am here to help others. I have not bought a house YET.
I repaid back millions in debt after my ex left me with his mess, and mistress mess, I did not claim bankruptcy as an easy option.
He had been living other lives with our money and my money.
I was also frauded by banking institutions in cohorts with my ex etc. in the years that followed, this was 9 years ago I put a roof over four children’s heads under 12, privately schooled all of them for years, paid for dancing, music, drums, guitar, and did all of the work load, running around, counselling, etc with zero help from anyone or one family member.
They are overseas. I had no holidays and no time out. I paid for my eldest to become a pilot privately and bought one a car.... plus my own.
I know what it means to love unconditionally, sacrifice, and work hard and smart. But mostly I understand how to meditate and look after myself physically, mentally and spiritually.
This is why I do what I do there is no better healer, teacher than life itself!
Yes I am a counsellor and trainer, but it’s my spiritual beliefs and my understanding of the power of attraction that saved me.
The souls we spend time with can make or break your life. My ex had to go.
Has it been easy not at all!
But i am at peace within myself, my boundaries, my self respect, and my self love. I trust that soon I will build my own home.
I am manifesting that! Stay tuned!
I trust that NCAT will rule in my favour re my current home which is not cheap to rent and is unacceptable. I will not be walked over, pushed over, or shit on. I am what you call well seasoned so you better make sure if you take me on you’ve got more than your ducks in a row.
I am an empowered women who can handle the truth and will rise to any threat.
I am grateful, thankful, and I trust that good comes to those souls who love others and mean what they say and do as they mean. I have no anger towards my ex just disappointment at his lack of the same.
The road we choose will only lead to joy if it is walked with respect, integrity and love. There are no short cuts, and no excuses.
So here is a little video along with my ex husbands fave Opera, a Jekyll and Hyde character who I trust one day can find peace. I have my peace.
I miss every single photo, my jewellery, my designer clothes, cars, antiques, and everything of my late mother and father burned in that house, I miss it all so much. But what I miss i would give up again tomorrow for my four beautiful children. namaste
~Leeza~